We lead and are lead by what we feel until we GROW into understanding what it is we think (and why).
We then have the CHOICE to lead or be lead by what we feel or what we think (and why).
One cannot mentally stimulate anyone who is not mentally ready.
One cannot mentally stimulate anyone who is not already mentally stimulated(able).
Being stimulated mentally is a MEETING of the minds, not an INTRODUCTION of the minds.
One cannot introduce mentally stimulating an adult mind any more than he can introduce mentally stimulating a child’s mind.
Both still have to grow into it (on their own), in order to meet the like-mind you.
In life, at living and in love, we meet people where they are at or they meet us where we are at, ideally, on the same wave length.♡