Responsibility.
Reciprocity:
Any expectation that we have of someone is a sign that we
have not taken the responsibility for the fact that-that is something knawing at us;
telling us that it is us who owes that which (or whom)…we have
any expectation of.
We cannot expect what we do not extend.
The less our expectations, the greater a surprise.
Eradicating expectations enable us to see things (and people) for the gifts that
we should merely be grateful for, and appreciative
of-for we cannot depend on what we ourselves do not extend.
Therefore be open to all things and people as a gift, surprise (or otherwise).